F.C.
Barcelona and its free-flowing, passing football. Brazilians doing the samba with a ball at their feet. These
may come to mind when one encounters the description of football as a
‘beautiful’ game.
Most
football fans in Singapore support the likes of Manchester United, Liverpool,
Arsenal, and Chelsea. In December 2001, I entered my parents’ bedroom where my
father was watching Leeds United vs NewcastleUnited. Dad was a football
enthusiast – he captained his school team during his younger days – and would
spend hours every week watching English Premier League games on cable TV but I
had never summoned enough curiosity to accompany him and to find out why
football was such an important part of his life. For some reason that I cannot
recall, I decided to, for once, attempt to watch the game with him. In
retrospect, my decision to remain was a curious one as when I began watching,
Newcastle were already 3-1 down and were playing away from home against a
formidable Leeds team. Possessing little football knowledge and interest in the
game, I would normally have walked away, especially after I had seen the
score-line. Fate, however, ensured that I stayed put and watched the rest of
the match. This made sure that my life would never be the same again. The
Magpies, the nickname by which Newcastle is known, under the guidance of the
great Sir Bobby Robson, soon pegged back from being two goals down and drew
level with their opponents. In the dying minutes of the game, Nobby Solano
squeezed a shot in from a tight angle and the contrast between Sir Bobby’s and
David O’Leary’s reactions could not have been starker. Nobby’s winner made my
blood turn black-and-white. In all honesty, I had no idea that its 4-3 win sent
the Newcastle team to the summit of the Premier League table and the fact that
the team had not won a domestic title since the 1950s – and have not since –
precludes the possibility of me being labeled a ‘glory-hunter’. The spirit they
displayed in that match against Leeds was what gave them my allegiance.
| With Terence and Vinod at St James Park |
Many,
cognizant of the fact that I’m a Newcastle fan, often think that my support for
the club was the reason for my decision to select Durham University to
undertake my undergraduate studies. This is an impression which I need to correct.
Durham’s a reputable university in its own right and its History department was
ranked 2nd (behind Cambridge) when I applied to study there. I also
liked the fact that Durham was far away from London and provided a different
living environment from the hustle-and-bustle of city life that I’d grown up
with. On a personal level, supporting Newcastle added to the university’s
appeal, and played an important part in making Durham the University of my
Dreams.
| With Bill at the Sir John Hall Stand |
| With Hughie and Fast at the Woodman Inn |
Knowing a
little about English football helps a foreigner like me in my interactions with
locals here. Often, you meet someone new and apart from the usual introductory
exchanges, find yourself struggling to come up with a common topic for
discussion. Although one should not overestimate the broadness of the football
support base in England, I find myself surreptitiously heaving a sigh of
relief, not just because there’s something to break the awkward silence but
also because I enjoy finding out more about the different football clubs, the
areas they are in and the culture behind their existence. At times, the topic
provides the first foundation stone upon which a friendship may be forged. On
the 31st of October last year, I decided to catch a Monday night
football game: Newcastle vs. Stoke City. The Woodman Inn is a century-old,
local pub situated some five minutes away from my house in Durham and having
passed it quite a few times on the way to lectures, I decided to catch the game
there. Of course, I had to first verify if it was a safe place for Newcastle
fans to be in. The owner, Gary, told me that it was a Newcastle pub (I was to
realise that the Woodman was frequented by BOTH Newcastle and Sunderland fans)
and that I will be safe there. I popped in an hour later, some ten minutes
before the game, quite eager to interact with anyone who would care for a chat.
I took a seat at the bar counter and quickly began conversing with those seated
around me. They were mostly Durham locals and I warmed up to them with relative
comfort. A few were naturally curious about how I’d come to support the Magpies
and I genuinely enjoyed listening to their opinions on certain players – those
they rated and those they hated. The team defeated Stoke City that evening and
it was great fun celebrating with the others. A few weeks later, when the
satellite reception was temporarily lost while we were watching another game,
Michael, one of the guys I met the other night, offered to take me along with a
few others to another pub. He gave us a ride to Belmont, a few miles from the
Woodman, where we continued to watch the game at The Sportsman. They even bought me drinks! I have since become quite a regular at the Woodman and though I’m usually the only
Asian there (Michael refers to me as the ‘Asian Contingent’), I always enjoy
the company and the atmosphere there. I even had the opportunity to make
friends with Hughie, a die-hard Sunderland fan who constantly offers to take me
to the Stadium of Light and divert me to the ‘straight and narrow path’. That
aside, with reference to the game of football (and this may apply equally to
many other sports), I find it wonderful that people from such vastly different
backgrounds can come to share something common that is so close to their hearts,
to revel in the joyous moments and to commiserate with one another when things aren’t
as rosy. Football can really draw people together and can even form the basis
on which friendships can be built across racial and cultural lines. I am truly
grateful for this part of my Durham experience as it helps to make the experience
of studying overseas all the more complete.
| With Jeff, our beloved college porter |
oh mann, i just saw this post. i definitely need to be there man.
ReplyDeleteZheng Han
haha yes! if i'm still here, will defo take you to SJP (yes, thanks to Wonga haha)
Delete